Parsi Women Married Outside Community Can Perform Parents’ Last Rites, Says Supreme Court

Earlier, the Supreme Court had said that the law does not sanction the concept of a woman’s religion getting merged with her husband’s faith after an inter-religion marriage.

Earlier, the Supreme Court had said that the law does not sanction the concept of a woman’s religion getting merged with her husband’s faith after an inter-religion marriage.

CAs per the tradition, a Parsi woman loses her religious identity after marriage outside the community and is consequently barred from visiting the ‘Tower of Silence’ in the event of death of her Parsi family members. Credit: PTI

New Delhi: A Parsi Trust today broke age-old traditions and informed the Supreme Court that it would allow a Parsi woman and her sisters, who have married outside the community, to visit the ‘Tower of Silence’ and attend prayers in the event of the death of their parents.

A five-judge constitution bench headed by Chief Justice Dipak Misra, which is dealing a legal question whether a Parsi woman loses her religious identity if she marries a man from a different religion, lauded the stand of ‘Valsad Parsi Trust’ to allow Goolrokh M. Gupta and her married sisters to attend prayer in the temple of fire and the last rites of parents after their death.

The Trust, represented by senior lawyer Gopal Subramanium, said, “It is agreed and declared between the petitioner and respondent (trust) that the respondent will, on compassionate grounds, permit the petitioner to attend the funeral prayers (Paldust ceremony) of her parents performed inside the prayer hall of the Bungli (bunglow) of the Tower of Silence complex (Doongerwadi) complex at Valsad.”

The Tower is used for funerary purposes by the adherents of the Zoroastrian faith, in which the traditional practice for disposal of the dead involves the exposure of the corpse to the sun and vultures.

The bench, also comprising Justices A.K. Sikri, A.M. Khanwilkar, D.Y. Chandrachud and Ashok Bhushan, said the statement of the Parsi Trust “meets the present requirement of the petitioner and her sisters” and made it clear that the issues relating to Gupta’s constitutional rights will be adjudicated upon at a later stage on January 17.

When the court asked whether it can pass an order that now such women will be allowed to attend last prayers, the senior lawyer said he has taken instructions only from the Valsad Trust and there were several other trusts as well.

As per the tradition, a Parsi woman loses her religious identity after marriage outside the community and is consequently barred from visiting the ‘Tower of Silence’ in the event of death of her Parsi family members. Subramanium, who was asked on December 7 by the court to take instruction from the Trust on allowing the woman, said in all fairness, the trust has decided to allow the woman and would arrange the priest (mobeds) for her if she cannot manage on her own to perform the last prayers.

Moreover, the children of the woman could also “attend the funeral ceremonies of their grand parents by sitting in the pavilion opposite the Bungli along with the members of the communities both Zoroastrians and otherwise”.

Earlier, the Supreme Court had said that the law does not sanction the concept of a woman’s religion getting merged with her husband’s faith after an inter-religion marriage.

Gupta has challenged the customary law, upheld by the Gujarat high court in 2010, that a Parsi woman marrying a Hindu loses her religious rights in the Parsi community and hence, loses the right to visit the ‘Tower of Silence’ in the event of her parents’ death to perform the last rites.

The high court had held that a Parsi woman is deemed to have converted to Hinduism after she married a Hindu man. However, the top court bench had said it was only the woman who can decide about her religious identity by exercising her right to choice.

On October 9, the top court had referred to a five-judge constitution bench the legal question whether a Parsi woman loses her religious identity after marrying a man of different religion.

The woman, in her appeal filed in 2012, said she had married a Hindu under the Special Marriage Act and should be allowed to retain her place in the Parsi community.

She assailed the high court finding that a woman universally loses her paternal identity just because of her marriage with a man practising the Hindu religion. She had approached the high court contending that even after her marriage with a Hindu man, she has continued to follow Zoroastrian religion and thus had the right to enjoy all privileges under the Parsi religion, including right to offer prayers at Agiari, a Parsi temple having the ‘holy fire’ and the ‘Tower of Silence’.

Gupta contended that her rights as a Parsi Zoroastrian cannot be denied on the ground that she has married a non-Parsi man. She had also argued that a male Parsi Zoroastrian continued to enjoy all rights available to a born Parsi, even if he is married to a non-Parsi woman.

A Protest by Pallbearers Opens Old Faultlines Among Parsis

Progressives and traditionalists debate whether it is time to move on from old practices

An agitation is brewing inside the calm Tower of Silence (Photo: P P Yoonus)

An agitation is brewing inside the calm Tower of Silence (Photo: P P Yoonus)

It is not usual to see anyone sport the colour red at Doongerwadi, (literally, garden on a hill), the final resting place for some Zoroastrians in Mumbai’s tony Kemps Corner neighbourhood. It is a revered place, of quiet grief and sometimes uncontrolled emotions, lush with greenery, where you can spot the occasional peacock. Amidst the mourners there, who sport whites and other sober colours, the red Gandhi caps of the workers have been wearing defiantly for the last four weeks or so stick out like the proverbial sore thumb. They are protesting in favour of their demands, mainly concerning a hike in wages and have just given notice of a strike.

Doongerwadi must have seen umpteen dead bodies being laid to rest in two structures called dokhmas, since they were first put to use in the 1670s. This spot on the eastern edge of Malabar Hill, once the highest point in the island city of Mumbai got its name – the Tower of Silence — from a colonial administrator and that’s how it has been known since. At one point this spot was way outside city limits and there are records of wild animals being sighted in the vicinity; today it is hemmed in by exorbitantly priced high-rise apartments. The sylvan 56 acre property is administered by the Bombay Parsi Panchayat (BPP), among the richest private trusts in the country, now unfortunately riddled with infighting among the trustees.

Doongerwadi is a place for Zoroastrian bodies to be exposed to the elements and to scavenging birds – mainly vultures — for excarnation. Zoroastrian tradition considers a dead body to be unclean and a potential pollutant. Religious texts like the Vendidad have rules for disposing of the dead as “safely” as possible. To preclude the pollution of earth or fire, the bodies of the dead are disposed off in a manner to prevent putrefaction, with all its concomitant evils.

The protesting workers include khandhias (pallbearers), who carry the body to its final destination after the prayers are recited, to the dokhmas. These 18 khandias must be Zoroastrian which, given the nature of their work, makes them even harder to replace. At one time, there was a distinction between khandhias, and nassesalars, the former being those who actually carried the bodies on their shoulders to the dakhma, and the nassesalars who took the bodies into the dakhma and exposed it to the elements. The distinction does not exist anymore, perhaps due to the paucity of finding the men to do the work. The khandhias also have to tackle the remains of the body after the elements (and birds, if available) have done their job. They are required the move the remains into a central pit within the dakhma and then bury the remains.

Poor social status

Progressive elements within the community are not happy at the ‘social status’ of the pallbearers. Many come from rural Gujarat and are the products of inter faith unions, it is believed. Alcohol helps some of them do the ‘grisly’ work, it is said. The BPP has tried solar panels and even a mix of chemicals as add-ons to to hasten the process, but finally, it is the khandhias who need to actually administer whatever is required. Some of them say they are akin to priests, as they perform a vital function mandated by the Zoroastrian faith. It is thus ironical that they themselves need to undergo a ritual purification if they need to worship at a fire temple. Most khandhias live at Doongerwadi—they claim they find it difficult to get accommodation in the Zoroastrian colonies as few want to share common space with those who come in close contact with death and contamination.

The face off between Dhunji Netarwla, General Secretary of the Mumbai Mazdoor Sabha and the BPP represented by Yazdi Desai, who is also a director in a city logistics firm is over a proposed wage hike. Desai states that the BPP cannot afford the high wages that the Union is demanding. Netarwala rubbishes this and blames the infighting between the trustees for not being able to come to an amicable settlement.

A reported increase of Rs 6,000 per worker has been demanded by the Mumbai Mazdoor Sabha during negotiations with the BPP–the last increment in 2012 was Rs 4,500. In case the strike does take place, a group of community volunteers who will function as pallbearers is ready to take over, but they have not learnt all the relevant practices. Khandhias are available only in Mumbai, Pune and Surat. Other locations that have a Zoroastrian population and have access to dakhmas do not use the services of pallbearers. Family members carry the body to the final resting place within the dakhma.

A community’s secret

Hidden away from view, or spoken about in hushed tones, the khandias of Mumbai are among the best kept secrets of the community. The talk of strikes has raised the decibel level for a debate about alternative methods for the disposal of the dead in this otherwise classless community. Many within the community are now questioning the relevance of this traditional method of disposal of in current times, given an almost extinct vulture population within Mumbai, while it has its adherents among the traditionalists who are opposed to other methods of disposal and frown upon cremation. Meanwhile, a Zoroastrian charitable trust has recently donated money to the municipal authorities to build a special prayer hall at a central Mumbai crematorium, as the traditionalists do not allow the recital of prayers at Doongerwadi for those who choose cremation as a method of disposal. Meanwhile the protest goes on, as the community’s leaders seek out a solution.